What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs most is respect. The most important thing for a girl is her heart. For a guy its his ego.
Give your man his own time and space. Let him have his time for his friends, sports, family, self and God. The relationship will grow old quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss you and you’ll see how he will love you more. If the guy naman is obsessed and just wants to be with you all the time, tell him you can’t respect a “ puppy “ for long.
Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagal na kayo, there’s always something fresh and new. Variety is the spice of life, exciting baga?
Discover something you both like to do and enjoy it TWOgether. Doon naman sa mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig nyo, compliment each other by learning about it kahit konti. If you love someone, ‘yung effort niyo to try will go alooooong way to understanding him later pag may disagreement kayo.
Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh? Maybe, but its very powerful. ‘Pag may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend mo, kampante ka na hindi ka niya lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything he does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa that before you part after date, with hold hands and eyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe me it’s effective.
Kailanman ‘di corny ang magdasal.
Believe in “magic”. Kahit ‘di minsan practical o walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sound crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories will be fun to recall later in life. The corniest song o gift o letter ang laging kabog!
True love brings out the best in each other. Find something good in your boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.
It’s healthy to fight. Doon nyo lang maaayos ang mga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng relationship. Doon mo din sya makikilala ng mabuti. It’s called test of fire. Di mahalaga how dalas you fight, what matter is how often you make bati. Mas nakakatakot ‘yung relasyong sobrang perfect at laging Masaya. One big fight and that’s it! And diba mas kilig ‘yung malambing na… “ uy, bati na tayo…”.
But don’t overdo it, kakapagod naman din na lagi na lang manuyo o magsorry. Choose the battles na papatulan mo. The little issues, palampasin na. Don’t sweat the small stuff.
Daraan sa iba’t ibang stage ang love especially ‘pag matagl na kayo. Grow with it, don’t expect him to be like nung una. ‘Coz like a student, di na ituturo sa grade 6 ‘yung lesson na pang grade 2. Change WILL happen… You both will change and your love WILL change to. It’s up to you na lang if the change will be for the better or for the worse. Life is about growth. Grow with it.
When breakup comes and it’s time to say goodbye, don’t doubt the love because it didn’t last. May mga bagay sa buhay na hindi man nagtatagal, it doesn’t mean di na ito totoo. Some good things are just never meant to last forever. Okay lang ‘yun. Bless the parting and move on. Expect tears, sorrow, sleepless nights and pain. Ika nga “ It’s when you hurt the worse that you love the most.” Kung di ka willing masaktan, ‘wag ka na lang magmahal.
Life is balance. And love is both holding on and letting go. Know when to fight for your man and when to let him go. God will guide you kung anong dapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapat mataas ang signal ng langit sa cellphone ng puso mo to know his wisdom.